That is the lessons for me too. I have a painted sign above my coffee pot that I view every morning as a reminder my purpose is my integrity.. It says, simply, I SAW THAT! ~~ Karma I think I posted this elsewhere.... I believe all relationships are karma.... some good, some bad, some toxic but it is also to remember those karmic lessons may be for the other person not just us. Personally, I don't believe in twin flames for the fact that each of us is a whole person, not a half looking to match up - that's codependency. But I do believe in soul contracts that go on for lifetimes...... Gratitude that you share these stories with us!