Marilyn, thank you for this incredible response to the challenge. THIS is exactly the type of story I was hoping to read! I have been called the high and mighty prude for years. I had to look closely at that. It's a double- edged sword for me. I try to live to my own values of integrity and honesty - some that have told me that don't know my story and yet sometimes I need to let go, lighten up, and remember my truth may differ from theirs. Sometimes my truth may hurt them. Marilyn I am happy to get to know you more!